Good Morning!

I usually work first with the scripture and then draw out the implications for one or another issue or concern. The Jeremiah scripture about the new covenant written on the heart is central to this sermon but I'm going to turn to Jeremiah after sharing a piece of my story, and a piece of Seeker's story.

I have been on a long healing journey as a bigender person and Seekers has been a wonderful part of this story. I hope that opening up this story with you today will be both a healing step for me and an additional deepening of Seekers understanding of inclusiveness. If we are most likely to grow at our points of vulnerability then this may become a rich moment indeed.

Quite a few Seekers know my story through one-on-one sharing. Some of you have read my autobiographic paper and Trish's paper upon attending her first transgender event. My mission groups and the core membership have received my story as well. As a result, I have received a lot of hugs and other warm expressions of caring and concern. It is the personal caring that has mattered to me the most, but it has also mattered that Seekers took the step of formally revising its call to welcome me, even though you didn't know this part of my name at that moment. It has also mattered that Seekers has chosen to give financial support to advocacy for transgender justice issues. Such corporate acts have mattered a lot to me.

The words bigender and transgender are probably not well known words for all of you. Rather than go through a lot of formal distinctions I'm going to just tell a little bit about why claiming and naming myself with these words is important to me.

I already have preached a piece of this sermon about two years ago, maybe three. I pointed out then that the social roles, man and woman, and the cultural images, masculine and feminine, are human creations. Such social and cultural constructions are so basic we sometimes slide into thinking of them as "natural," as if this is just the way things are. One tiny example that shows the human element is that the color pink was associated with boys rather than girls in the United States before World War I. More substantially, other cultures have made social and cultural space for people who did not fit neatly into the distinction of man or woman. Most of the Native American traditions had special places for "two-spirit" people, often as healers or as ritual leaders. Such two-spirit people were singled out for oppression and genocide by invading Europeans, indeed they reported on two-spirit people as a justification for calling Native Americans savages.

All social and cultural stereotypes, including the roles of "man" and "woman" should be evaluated in terms of Christian values. The brave leaders of women's liberation have led us through decades of education and growth to overcome patriarchal distortions and affirm equality of opportunity for women. The way I work with the concepts of masculine and feminine is to affirm all that is virtuous, whether it is named masculine or feminine, and to work and live against all that is destructive or alienating, whether it be done in the name of "being a man" or "being a woman." I've gotten a lot of support for becoming a more nurturing parent, for being a more responsible housekeeper, for example.

The harder part for some of you has been that I also want to experience, and claim my experience, that comes with claiming a distinctly feminine appearance. This may or may not be important to others, but explicitly working with my feminine appearance has opened up spiritual and psychological wellsprings that had felt locked away from me. I've tried to give some of the fruits of that work back to Seekers in several ways. The core of my story is that my experience of working with my feminine appearance, as well as working in other ways with the virtues called feminine in this culture, has very much become part of claiming my spiritual wholeness, of knowing my soul.

This journey has not been an easy one for me. When I was a teenager I thought I was the only person like this in the world. My transgender community was so oppressed that I could find no signs of it, except in pornography. This society taught me shame and taught me to hide. I thought I was supposed to kill myself. Sometimes I thought I was supposed to maim myself. One of the reasons that sermons like this have to be preached is so that every gay boy child, every exploring lesbian, every hungry bisexual young person, every seeking transgender child will know that they are not alone, that God loves them, and that there is a welcome waiting them in the covenant of faithful Christians, including today in Seekers community. When such support is real, when it is fully visible, then fewer people like me will have to work so hard to get rid of the societal sicknesses of homophobia and transphobia that they swallowed.

Psychiatrists and preachers tried to put people like me back in the bottle. They hid us away in the back wards when we were healthier than our oppressors. They fried our brains with electricity and chemicals to make us docile. They stuck "ice picks" through our eye sockets into our brains and turned our highest mentality and spirit to mush, and thought it was okay because it had the clinical name lobotomy. Psychiatrists said they were just trying to help us adjust to a Judeo-Christian society. Preachers said we were sinful and turned us over to the clinicians to be cured. This awful oppression began to turn around for gays and lesbians in 1973 when the official voices of psychiatry and psychology said homosexuals were not sick. It has to happen for transgender people now.

So the next time you hear that someone is bigender, or transgender, or transvestite, or transsexual, I hope you will think, "Oh, such a person might be like Pat, a caring and committed Christian, working away at being a good parent and a good spouse, taking up her and his share of the work of the world." And when your children ask about me, I hope it will be easy for you to say, "Pat is someone who likes to dress like a man sometimes and like a woman sometimes because he and she wants to know and experience the best things that men and women know." And I don't care how you handle the pronouns, our language is hopelessly bipolar. Another true thing you might say is that "Pat thinks it is a lot of fun to dress up as a woman sometimes." I don't think you have to worry about the children too much because they know better than most of us about the importance of play as a way to learning and growing. And if you come upon a child for whom my witness is troubling, I hope you will be able to appreciate that something that was hidden and hurting in that child finally has a positive reference, one small standing ground for further growth and exploration. And if any of you find that you have a child who is showing inclinations towards being gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender, I hope this sermon will help you more easily embrace your child and to affirm the path by which love and passion is becoming manifest in your child's life.

The task of inclusion in Seekers isn't done until there is public space for me to be known. Until then, we are giving in to the shame categories in this society and culture.

To mark this moment I want to share a poem that I discovered lurking within myself as I prepared for this sermon.

And now I need to tell you why I think the Jeremiah scripture is so important. Let me repeat verse thirty-three in chapter 31.

I will set my law within them and write it on their hearts.

To understand what an important spiritual break through this is, it helps to compare Jeremiah's covenant with the covenants of Moses, Abraham and David.

The first historical covenant was with Moses. We had it as lectionary scripture a few weeks ago. The founding event of leading the people out of Egypt came to its climax with the gathering at Sinai. As thanks for their liberation, the followers of Moses were to become keepers of the law, starting with the Ten Commandments. The class of priests, scribes and lawyers that made the rule of law real in Israel, real enough to challenge the arbitrary power of kings, carried forward one of the founding events for the Judeo-Christian tradition and for Western Civilization. They also invented 641 other laws. Let me read a few from a list in the 22nd chapter of Deuteronomy.

When you see your fellow countryman's ass or ox lying on the road, do not ignore it; you must help him lift it to its feet again.

You shall not make twisted tassels on the four corners of your cloaks which you wrap around you.

By the way, in the law about cross-dressing, the reference to "those who do these things" being "abominable" is probably a reference to the cross dressing priests and priestesses of Canaanite religions.

The larger point here is that the Mosaic covenant created laws written in stone, laws which were objective, and an authority to enforce them.

The covenant with Abraham was simpler, a promise to bless a blood line on the condition of circumcising males so one could tell who was in and who was not. This was a more unconditional promise of God's love, but a promise limited to a single blood line.

The covenant with David, as found in Second Samuel, is also unconditional,

"My love shall never be withdrawn from you, as it was from Saul."

But, just a few chapters later, David messes up big time and Nathan nails him with a big punishment from God. We thus have the more sophisticated idea emerging that God's love is unconditional, but that this does not mean a ruler can act as if justice didn't matter. Thus the stage is set for the beginning of a more sophisticated theology of redemption, the idea of salvation by grace through faith, the faith measured in part by repentance.

But with Jeremiah, two more changes are added.

The first is that the law of God is immediately knowable. It is written on the heart and not on stone.

The second change is that the covenant is directly with the people and not mediated as a hierarchical possession of a Moses, an Abraham, a David. We no longer need a class of priests, scribes, and lawyers to enforce detailed obedience. Instead we need a spiritual transformation that affirms the spirit of the law.

Many people think of Jeremiah's understanding of covenant as the possession of the New Testament. We think of Jesus challenging the legalism of the Pharisees. Jesus did indeed make many such challenges, but he was doing so on the best scriptural authority and we are told some of his followers thought he was Jeremiah reborn.

Our task as spirit people, as Christians, is to figure out what the spiritual guidance of God is and what is just the limited framing of any particular culture. Women think nothing of breaking the law found in Deuteronomy 22:5, are at ease wearing articles of clothing defined as "men's." Most of us are probably wearing some kind of blended cloth, but I think we are doing pretty well with the tassels rule. It is easy to tease the fundamentalists for picking and choosing which laws they will obey when they say all the laws are legally binding. It is harder to see through the cultural blinders that has led the church to punish people like me so severely. Think of Joan of Arc and all the "witches" who were killed for cross-dressing.

Rather than run down my list of atrocities, I want to tell you a short story about the trial of a rooster in the 15th century at Basel, a true story. The rooster was charged with laying an egg. The rooster's lawyer argued that the act was involuntary, and that animals were not capable of making pacts with the devil. The court found the cock innocent, but attributed the act of laying an egg to a sorcerer masquerading as a cock. As a result, the rooster, and the egg in question, were burned at the stake.

Jesus didn't speak about cross-dressing as such, but he did speak a word of liberation for another kind of transgender people, that is eunuchs. By the way, as one measure of oppression, the word eunuch appears over 60 times in Greek and Hebrew scripture but the modern biblical translations use the word only a dozen times, at most. In Matthew 19:12, Jesus is recorded as overturning one of the 651 laws which kept eunuchs from entering the temple and instead welcomes eunuchs to the kindom of heaven, whether they were born that way, whether they were castrated as punishment, or whether they castrated themselves for the kindom of heaven.

I thank Jesus, or the writers who interpreted his words, for including me in the kindom. I thank Seekers for providing the space and support for my spiritual journey which has led me to this particular step in my journey toward liberation.

Some of you will have questions and I invite you to approach me. For those of you who are trying to sort out the language I've brought copies of the glossary from my book. I also brought copies of the poem for anyone who would like a copy. I am not asking you to do anything in response to this sermon, just to know me a little better, and to care for me and the other people in Seekers who find it frightening to let their full stories be known. To extend the opportunity to know me better, I plan to dress to my feminine appearance and come to church sometime after Easter.